Sarah:
“I was just your classic story,” shares
Sarah. When she first enrolled in the Family Self-Sufficiency Program (FSS)
through the Housing And Community Services Agency of Lane County
(HACSA), Sarah was facing tough times. She had a school-aged daughter
and a two year old son with severe disabilities which often required
medical treatment. She couldn’t work because her son needed around the
clock care and to top it all off she felt stuck in an abusive
relationship with her partner. Looking back almost 8 years ago, Sarah
remembers
“I needed to do SOMETHING!”
And that’s just what this resourceful and determined woman did.
Sarah joined
the ranks of over 130 Section 8 and Public Housing residents who have
graduated from a voluntary program designed to assist participants in
identifying, locating, and arranging services they may need to reach
economic self-sufficiency.
Sarah says that she joined the Family
Self-Sufficiency program because it was the only program that did not
include behavior modification. “Nothing was mandated or condescending,”
says Sarah. “I didn’t have to do anything. I chose to.”
FSS provided Sarah with someone to talk to and bounce her ideas off of,
someone to validate her efforts, and the encouragement she needed to
improve the quality of life for herself and her children. Sarah
describes FSS as the only program in her life that wasn’t coercive. “It
was a reward -- not a punishment.
When she first joined FSS she was on the
Oregon Health Plan, receiving welfare assistance, Food Stamps, and was a
new Section 8 participant. “I couldn’t even imagine a budget that didn’t
include Food Stamps!”
But now that I have graduated from
college with a degree in Sociology from the University of Oregon, gotten
a job that I can feel proud of, and have reached the goals that my FSS
Coordinator and I created when I joined the program, I’m doing pretty
good now. I would definitely recommend this program to anyone who could
use a little help. —
Sarah
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Sonya:
“I just
needed a little help -- that’s all.” As a single mom with a newborn
baby facing the reality of the bills that accompanied this bundle of
joy, Sonya anticipated rough roads ahead. “I was just spreading myself
too thin,” she shared on the Wednesday morning we met for an early
lunch. We chose a restaurant close by her new job at a local state
agency office.
“My story
is not like a lot of others I hear from FSS participants. I am so
lucky. I haven’t had to go through such terrible times,” Sonya
acknowledges. “Sometimes within the program I felt bad. I knew that
there must have been someone out there that could use this help more
than I could have. But I’ll tell you, I sure appreciated all the help I
got.”
What Sonya
didn’t realize was that the Family Self-Sufficiency (FSS) Program,
offered by the Housing And Community Services Agency of Lane County
(HACSA) was designed for participants with a variety of personal and
financial situations. FSS is designed for everyone who is ready to
make the commitment of becoming financially self-sufficient. Some
individuals enter the program jobless and facing severe economic
hardships, while others are more financially secure. Many participants
are employed, but barely getting by. Like Sonya, new FSS participants
have found it difficult to get ahead on their own. Sonya’s story is not
so unusual.
“I really
did it!” She declares. “And so can you.”
“When I
moved out of my parent’s house I was basically homeless for a little
while. I had a rough pregnancy with my son. I just couldn’t work. So,
I moved into the transitional housing program through St. Vincent de
Paul. I was lucky enough to get a job at Lane County’s Head Start
Program and I could basically afford to pay my few bills and get my
one-month old baby into daycare. It was when I was on a temporary
lay-off from Head Start that I got to move into Public Housing and
enroll in the FSS program. When I went back to work at Head Start, FSS
began to put money into my escrow account. Just like that. It was that
easy.
At this
point Sonya and her FSS worker focused their attention on putting
Sonya’s life in order. They met often to establish and discuss Sonya’s
goals and about how she planned to achieve them. “I didn’t have any
stability or resources,” she shares. “I needed skills in budgeting most
of all.” Sonya says that while growing up she never learned basic
budgeting skills. Her parents had a hard time dealing with money and
they still do. She wanted to do better for herself and her baby. Her
goals were to one day own her own home and have a good job. Utilizing
the referrals and resources that FSS could share was exactly what Sonya
needed.
“I
learned to be accountable for my spending. I got to take some classes
through the OUR Credit Union, Lifeline, and NEDCO. They helped me to
think ahead about my money. I learned how to keep a ledger book of my
spending and I kept all my receipts. (I still do!) I used the
budgeting models that they gave me and then I changed it a little to
make it fit my own needs. Now I can afford the little things like going
out to lunch today. I am in control of where
my money goes.
Sonya really
got to know herself through this process. Her open communication with
her FSS worker enabled her to receive support and services concerning
personal boundaries, establishing parenting strategies, maintaining self
care and, of course, budgeting. She says she’s really impressed with how
FSS focused on the whole family. “I’ve always had high standards for
myself and I’m my own worst critic.” This program helped Sonya learn
about her personal limitations in the areas of employment, education,
finances, and personal relationships. Her FSS worker helped her improve
these areas of her life and reach the goals that she set for herself.
“Now I won’t
get stuck. I’ve got the skills and confidence to get myself out of
whatever comes my way. This program has really opened my eyes. It
helped me to build my self esteem. I knew that the key to my success
wasn’t doing this program because I had to, or because someone
else wanted me to, but because I knew it was what I needed to do to
help myself.
Sonya has
moved out of Public Housing, graduated from the FSS Program and found a
new job that she loves. “I’m getting retirement benefits and the pay is
great!” The escrow money that Sonya received upon graduation from FSS
waits in a savings account until she is ready to buy her first home.
She’s surprised that there aren’t more people taking advantage of this
empowering program. She encourages everyone to sign up for FSS and work
toward their own financial independence as she has.
When
people around me share their struggles and
I hear them saying that they’re not sure if they can make it, I tell
them YES YOU CAN!
--Sonya
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Mary:
“You don’t want to get into a hole the way that I did!”
exclaims Mary. She has struggled with debt all her life. After
becoming a Section 8 participant and then a Family Self-Sufficiency (FSS)
Program participant, Mary gained the skills and knowledge she needed to
reduce her debt and get her finances on track. This is her story.
Mary’s daughter was born in 1988. Six months before her
daughter’s birth, Mary’s husband became disabled and was unable to work.
They fell behind on their house payments and quickly lost their home.
Mary and her husband considered living in their car, but instead were
able to borrow money from family and friends to buy a used 14 ft. travel
trailer. Mary remembers that this trailer was really falling apart.
When her husband finally began to receive disability insurance payments
they were able to purchase a 24 ft. trailer.
They lived in this small trailer for seven years. “It
was meant to be something you use for a vacation, not to live in,” Mary
remembers. She also recalls that when her four year old daughter was
visiting friends and family she would start running from room to room,
switching lights on and off and flushing their toilets. Her daughter was
so unfamiliar with such basics that she couldn’t control herself. “Our
home didn’t really have light switches, and we didn’t have far to walk
from one end of the trailer to another,” she explains.
Mary and her husband eventually got divorced. Although
she was happy to be out of this abusive relationship, she was now faced
with the challenges of being a single parent. With a small child and
being rarely in the company of other adults, Mary’s life slowly became
more and more isolated. “I just wished I had someone to talk to,” she
says.
On December 5,1993, Mary’s life changed. She had reached
the top of the waiting list for Section 8 housing and was given a
Voucher for a two bedroom unit. Mary had to move fast to find a home
for herself and her little girl. “It was hard,” she remembers. “No one
wanted to take my Section 8 Voucher. I called everyone, and I looked at
so many houses. Finally, I found my home near the Gateway Mall in
Springfield.”
“To
us this house was HUGE! You actually had to walk from room to room. It
had a full-sized bath tub, we each had our own bedroom (although we
slept together on an air-mattress for a while because we weren’t used to
being so far apart from each other) and there were light switches in
every room. We loved our new home so much that we ran out into the front
yard screaming WE’RE HOME!” -- Mary
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